walls and stuff

Quote: "I built up a wall, not to block everybody out, but to see who loves me enough to climb over it."

but, why can't you make an effort yourself? Cuz it sounds like you're just sitting behind the wall, waiting for people to climb over it :S Why can't you sit ON the wall, throw down a rope and help others climb over it? Both of you (/both of us) will be making an effort..
The quote isn't stupid or anything.. i understand why you'd say something like that, but what if the other one has built up a wall as well? You'd both have walls, and neither of you are willing to climb over eachother's walls :S neither of you will make an effort for a friendship.. both of you will just, stay there, waiting for someone else to climb your stupid wall.. Now would that make sense?! -_-''

(is my STORY still making sense?!? ..no.. :p)
ahwell...